Have you ever noticed the lessons that your life has taught you?
Yes I agree that each and every life story is different. We don’t match in our experiences and challenges, but one thing is common.
Our life has always taught us at every step whether it’s a good situation or a bad. It always brings a lesson along with us. We just need to be open to those learnings so that we can make the best use of it and don’t repeat the mistakes.
Don’t trust everyone
Not everyone deserves the trust you must give to those who are loyal and worthy of that trust. If we make this mistake we can often fall into a big trouble in our personal or professional lives. It is a tough decision of whom to trust and whom not to, but time and experience tells and teaches you everything.
We all have trusted the wrong person or people at some point in time and that’s okay because we don’t always know what’s inside a person. But what we need to realize and understand is that we should not trust each and everyone we know or are in contact with. Some people are not friends, they are just a network.
Enjoy your own company
You will not always be surrounded by people. And even if you are with a bunch of people, they might not always be the ones who understand you, listen to you or make you feel important and heard. Many times it happens that we give so much to a person such that when they leave, they take away everything from us and we shatter badly to destroy our lives with our own hands. That’s where we need to learn from our life that we should enjoy our own company and be happily sufficient in oneself.
Nothing remains forever
NOTHING is forever no matter how much we try and fantasize. When something bad happens or our life gets caught by painful experiences we feel depressed and lost out of visions and hope because we fail to believe that this is not forever. This pain is not going to remain for the rest of our lives. Today or tomorrow we will learn to get over those bruises. Because nothing lasts forever. Even the positive things. Never have a superiority complex of things you have today. Life is entirely uncertain. What you have today may not be there to pamper your mind tomorrow. Remain grounded and always be ready to accept and outgrow what life brings on the table.
Riches are more than money
The biggest mistake most of us do is scaling the measures of success or a “happy life” in terms of money and financial aspects. However the riches of life go beyond the things that money can buy. Yes to a certain extent money is important to provide the needs for our survival, but to make a life of purpose and give it a meaning, only money cannot do the needful. Embrace relations, respect time, practice self development, spread positivity, happiness, kindness and wisdom. These are the things that are the real riches that life teaches us with time.
Never stop believing yourself
We may have our own challenges, mistakes that we do at every step, or failures that are making us feel that we are good for nothing, but that’s when you have to tell yourself that you are worth a thousand battles and you are winning at yourself if you refuse to give up even when you feel that you aren’t winning. Maybe you are not first in the race but even if you finish the race you are telling yourself that you’ll be better next time because you ain’t giving up. Believe in yourself and you’re halfway there.
Positive thinking can change life
Just like believing in yourself is important, staying positive is equally important. When we say we need to be patient, it doesn’t just mean waiting, it means waiting with a positive and hopeful mindset. Not only in your professional journey but as a person you’ll emit such powerful vibes to people you meet that they’ll be awed by your presence and would always look up to you when they need to feed some positivity in their heart and mind.
Quality matters more than quantity
We have always been quantifying everything. The count may not matter until it is the count of the blessings which are innumerable. Don’t quantify everything you have rather understand the quality i.e. the value it holds. Like when it comes to friends, don’t count the number of friends you have, instead see if you have friends who are supporting you at every place. If you have money, understand if it is enough to not only bring you basic needs and elementary wants but also is able to do the social service in the society that is giving you space.
What goes around comes around
Give positivity and receive positivity. If you are emitting vibes that are positive and adding to the happy air, you will feel the same inside of you because you attract the same vibes you project. On the other hand if you are spreading negative vibes you will never be able to inhabit goodness because you are attracting unproductive thoughts, ideas and vibes.
You don’t live once. You live daily. Each and every day is a new chance for you to shape your life. Learn the lessons it is trying to teach you and spread that in your future self.
Live life the fullest!
